At Mary Wade, we understand that nothing quite compares to the warmth of family. For our residents, visits from loved ones are more than welcome—they are vital. Family time enhances emotional well-being, reduces feelings of isolation, and brings joy that lasts far beyond the moment. Especially during the summer, when schedules may be more flexible and the days are longer, visits can offer priceless opportunities to reconnect, reminisce, and strengthen family bonds.

Why Visits Matter

As we age, meaningful relationships become even more important. Regular visits from family not only boost mood but also support cognitive health, decrease loneliness, and reinforce a resident’s sense of identity and purpose. For grandchildren and younger family members, visiting Mary Wade can provide a grounding sense of continuity, wisdom, and love. These shared experiences can be both healing and joyful, helping everyone—young and old—feel more connected and seen.

Summer provides the perfect backdrop for these moments. Whether you’re coming from across town or across the country, your visit can brighten a resident’s entire week. And with just a little planning, your time together can be deeply memorable.

Here are some thoughtful, engaging ideas for making the most of your summer visits at Mary Wade:

1. Take Advantage of Outdoor Spaces

Mary Wade offers peaceful, accessible green spaces like our garden, perfect for leisurely walks, conversation, or even a small family picnic. Outdoor time provides both physical and emotional health benefits—sunshine, fresh air, and natural beauty do wonders for the spirit. Consider bringing a frisbee or bubbles for young ones to enjoy while older family members relax nearby.

2. Get Creative Together

Art and creativity transcend age. Bring a tote of coloring supplies, watercolors, or a simple DIY craft to enjoy together. Residents may enjoy teaching their favorite craft—like quilting, knitting, or scrapbooking—or learning something new from a younger relative. These shared experiences create keepsakes and strengthen bonds.

3. Storytelling and Legacy Sharing

Each visit is an opportunity to pass stories and traditions across generations. Encourage your loved one to share memories from their youth, holidays, or favorite summer adventures. Bring along photos, old letters, or heirlooms to spark conversation. You might even record short interviews or make a “family memory book” together.

4. Make Music Part of the Visit

Play your loved one’s favorite tunes and watch their face light up. Music can evoke powerful memories and emotions. Consider having a family sing-along, introducing kids to “grandma’s favorite songs,” or sharing a dance in the living room or patio. If anyone plays an instrument, bring it along!

5. Choose Games That Everyone Can Play

Classic board games, card games, or puzzles are great tools for interaction across age groups. They encourage conversation, teamwork, and lots of laughter. Choose accessible games like checkers, dominoes, or large-piece puzzles that accommodate varying abilities and attention spans.

6. Get Involved in Community Life

Mary Wade offers a full calendar of events, from musical performances and themed days to holiday celebrations and gardening clubs. Ask our staff about upcoming events during your visit—sharing these experiences as a family can help your loved one feel more included and supported.

7. Savor the Small Moments

Don’t underestimate the power of quiet time. Holding hands, enjoying a snack together, flipping through a photo album, or just sitting side-by-side can be deeply comforting. These gentle moments of presence often create the strongest memories.

A Season for Connection

At Mary Wade, we believe in the power of family and the joy of intergenerational connection. Summer visits aren’t just a pleasant way to pass the time—they’re vital touchpoints that nourish the heart and soul of our residents. Every hug, every laugh, every story shared helps create a web of support and love that enriches life here.

Our team is always here to help you plan a visit that works for your loved one’s preferences and abilities. Whether you stay for an hour or an afternoon, your presence makes all the difference.

Let’s make this summer one to remember—together.